
when someone says, the ball’s in yr court
you know you have to do some heavy lifting.
It’s up to you.
If the shit hits the fan,
yr responsible.
The ball’s in yr court, remember?
I used to play tennis a lot, so the metaphor’s
sort of apt, but I remember tennis as a lot
of to and fro, you and someone else at the other end
but somehow it ended up just me:
the bunny holding the ball.
I can’t even remember asking for it.
How does that work?
Some people pretend the ball is a hot potato and pass it on so rapidly, people with a sense of responsibility just catch it with a sense of duty or care. And then suddenly, the other players just run off, lots of stuff to do. They found an escape route. It’s like the little red hen making the bread. You need to design a get-away car and find a good friend who is also a good driver. π And if you think your natural kindness will be a problem, try to leave before the game begins.
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nah, I’m fine, Worms; I’m a big boy π just surprised how easily I fell into it; ah well, at least it gave me something to write about π
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And hey… it’s not always bad to be in control. π
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π that’s a great way of looking at it π I admire your optimism π
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Some folks like to get the ball. They get paid a fortune to do so. Those few might not even blame other people if they fail.
But you can’t win. I think their health pays a huge price. I think if they have the peace of Christ, the impact may be less severe.
I always loved tennis because you can hit that ball back. But, when you served for the match you were holding the ball and the heat was on. That got harder for me with accumulated years and now I cannot plat as my back SPASMS with each serve. So much for HOLDING THE BALL.
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I don’t think I’m built for holding the ball; I like to collaborate, share responsibility and the glory — if there’s any π yes, once you get into your senior years, tennis can become rather gruelling π thanks for the great comment π
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it does give you some control over what happens next at least –
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that is for sure, Beth; I think essentially I am a collaborator; though my alter ego is an alpha male π
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I think itβs good for us to have the ball in our court part of the time. But the game of life isnβt much fun when that is overdone.
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spot on, Neil ! Take charge when necessary but otherwise cooperate to make the world a kinder, better place —
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This poem is so relatable!!!
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thank you; it’s like when someone wants to offload their responsibility onto you so if the project whatever it is stuffs up then it’s down to you — as if they had no part in it —
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There is always a third option. Leave the ball and just let it roll in the corner.
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Ulle: that is brilliant: I never thought of that π
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if the ball is that heavy or hot, it’s not going to leave much time for the monkey! π
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π much to ponder there, Hobbo; thanks π
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The ball probably needs you, John. Not all hands feel safe to be in. Itβs some sort of life karma, I guess. π
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I guess maybe you’re right, Terveen: I’m seen as the responsible one —
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If someoneβs ball isnβt may court, I want to know right away how long its planning to stay and if itβs going to be a long time, is it okay if I give it a face with a magic marker for company.
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hahahah; reminds me of the face Tom Hanks drew on the volleyball in ‘Castaway’ , a ball he could talk to π
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Exactly. π If you leave your balls lying around, well, anything can happen.
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Lol ; thanks for the tip π
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The ball got in your court because you were the responsible one, the one that could be looked up to. The others were unsure of themselves. You should leverage the situation to gain complete control of your social milieu.
— Catxman
http://www.catxman.wordpress.com
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thanks Catxman; will do so π
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Hi John ,
I like to think the ball belongs to you because you’re the best person for it. π
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wow! that’s a great vote of confidence; thanks Eden π
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When it comes to hot potatoes
best to be playing doubles πΎπ
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fully agree, David π
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