
That tall,
leafless
stick of a plant
I thought needed water
I tended each morning
the constant gardener
till the real gardener came back from leave
and told me it was dead
slicing a stalk to show me
it was hollow as a straw.
All this time I lavished my love on this plant
and had killed it
& I couldnβt help but see
the seeds of a parable here
one that Jesus or Buddha could have touched on.
It just needed cultivating, thatβs all.
Oh man. A lesson indeed. Cultivated, but not over-pruned. Seems you’ve captured it (putting wide mouthed watering can away).
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the phrase ‘killing it with kindness’ comes to mind —
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Ha, oh yes, I must admit to not being the best with the houseplants. Touching and coddling them when they want just their space and appropriate diet of sunshine. Will learn one of these days…
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i’ve had my fair share of flora disasters, and it’s all trial and error for me, heavy on the error, but i do love to garden
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love that, Beth π
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I used to collect little cacti to have on my windowsill as a teenager. I killed them all. Either through neglect or love. I could never get the balance right. Guilt prevents me from trying anymore.
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thanks, Worms: I feel the same with frangipani —
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Hey man, you tried!
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hey, thanks for that, Neil; I did π
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Plants are pretty hardy, but sometimes they die. I hope you plant another. Frangipani is one of my fave fragrances. π
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I have, thanks Eden; I will not be so over the top with watering and have a lower water bill to boot π
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Sad..once I brought a rose home and was excited about raising it, but got too excited and watered it too often. In a week or so,the plant pot had been flooded and the rose died…π₯Ί
But nicely written! π
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thanks for sharing that: killing it with kindness
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Yeah..unfortunately π¦
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I suppose sometimes we just don’t know if we’re killing something with kindness. Sorry about your plant!
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that’s okay. I know now that too much kindness can kill; maybe it refers to humans too π¦
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Very true!
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The post grew on me!π
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haha; reminds me of a pun my English Senior made when I said I was having trouble with a Year 9 girl called Lichen in my English class: Don’t worry, he said. She’ll grow on you π
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π€£π€£ Moss have made you chuckle!
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Too much meddling can be counterproductive. Even if we have the best intentions. Excellent parable.
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thanks Bob; I love nurturing little stories into parables; my favourites are the parables of Jesus and Aesop π
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What a delicate and critical lesson. Killing with kindness can get us all in trouble. Only God can dig me/guide me out of my dilemmas. Thanks.
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yes, we can smother people with love; sometimes we need to stand back a little and see the effects of our over-zealous love —
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A lesson washed down with water. Love it!
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thanks Ulle: I have a penchant for extracting parables from everyday activities; maybe there’s a pill I can take for it π
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Please stay away from the pills
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I will, Ulle,I will, promise —
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At least you didn’t give up on it till the truth was revealed. Shows that appearances can be deceptive. But plants won’t deceive you. Good one, John. π
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thanks Terveen; I’m more careful now with what I expend my love on π
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