Why do people I hang out with
all have perfect marriages?
No fall outs.
No break-ups.
Just Bill & Coo.
Sweethearts of the Rodeo.
Never a false step.
Never foot in the mouth.
How do they do it?
How?
How Do They Do It?
John Malone
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Why do people I hang out with
all have perfect marriages?
No fall outs.
No break-ups.
Just Bill & Coo.
Sweethearts of the Rodeo.
Never a false step.
Never foot in the mouth.
How do they do it?
How?
John Malone 
Iām hoping one of your readers chime and share this secret as I also wonder. Now if you want to ask on what makes a relationship fail, I can easily share on that front. š I love your eternal hug statue. Perhaps the truth is in the friendship not the romance. Perhaps these two are friends, not lovers.
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Lol. I hope I get some helpful responses on this one too, K; I’m going to have to hang out with people in failed relationships š
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No problem, John. You can find us at happy hours the world wide.
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hahahah; I’ve met a few of our group at happy hours š
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So amazing carved picture and the eternal love scene we can feel šš·šā„ļø
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that carving is just a few streets down; I took a photo of it while neither were looking š
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Anyway this photo scene most beautiful š šš·
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I’m guessing not everything is quite as perfect as it may seem )
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actually you’re right: ‘They never argue’, I said of one couple. “You’re never around when they do. a friend of theirs said. Then he gives in’ š
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My answer to your question is: They don’t.
I think things are rarely as they seem to the outside world.
Discreet couples keep their troubles private. I’ve known some who’ve even kept their problems from one another. That is, until the divorce papers were served.
People are complex, aren’t they? š
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š relationships, Eden, are the tricky; human beans are not easy to deal with š
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I think Beth and Eden are right. It seems the marital relationship is the toughest one we face. I also believe it is worth every sacrifice. I gather it is the best place to learn by the grace of God what it means to love (whose opposite is apathy). At 76 I have a lot to learn. I do know our mutual faith in the Triune God is the glue that keeps our marriage together.
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well, that certainly works for you; I think love and acceptance, the big ore, are key components; I am learning š
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I doubt there are many married couples who never fight. But, as Eden said, I think people can be discreet.
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my mum had a saying: never air your dirty linen in public —-
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Yes. I think it’s good advice. And, to be honest, it’s awkward when people do attempt public airings, don’t you think?
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yes I do; it makes everyone vulnerable and pressured to take sides —
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Perhaps they just put on a united front to the world
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I suspect that is what many couples do — those that can restrain themselves š
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š¤£š¤£ I will let you know what advice Mrs H has on the subject, if she will let me!
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hahahaha; will look forward to that š I hope it is illuminating š
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š Sorry John, she won’t let me divulge our secrets!
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well, you tried š
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If you get some useful responses, please pass them on.
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I will, Bob; we need to know š
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Pro tip! Never start a fight you cannot win. Never had a fight with my wife. š
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you were a very wise man, Ulle š I would have saved myself a lot of trouble if I had adopted your stance earlier in life š
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Appearances are deceptive. Would have to spy on them to know the truth. I guess there are better things to do though. A great observation, John. š
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thanks, Terveen; I guess the best we can do is get on with our own lives without worrying about others —
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