
Start with the animals, Buddha once said.
So I do.
The cat wants to go out. It is badgering me to let it out in the balmy evening where all sorts of adventure await.
But I want it to stay inside, settle down like me.
It is so easy to be mean.
I open the door.
I must open my heart a little more as well.
My girl and I sometimes send unpleasant texts to each other. It is what couples who are not quite couples do.
I think the meanness in my texts should be let out too.
I open the door. It dithers.
I give it a swift kick up the backside and send it on its way.
I begin my text message anew.
Very thoughtful and thought provoking John. Lovely write
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thanks Worms; thought I’d start off the post Xmas Day season with a positive one š
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take a deep breath and reset before you act
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I’m learning, Beth, I’m learning š
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we all are and we are all a work in process
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I love that attitude, Beth: it’s wonderful and forgiving š
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If we start with the animals, I suppose I will be teaching the squirrels around her to focus, then hoping these lessons rub off on me. Very thought-provoking, John. Do you think children count on this same principle of starting with the animals?
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tough question, K; could lead to trouble if you let kids out at all hours of the night, but consideration certainly; it isn’t easy being a parent as I’m sure you know; as for squirrels … š
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Don’t be too hard on yourself, John. I have it on good authority that there are some animals that are not all cocoa and fluffy slippers either! š¾
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hahaha; thanks Hobbo; hope Dauphy is not listening š
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Dauphy IS my good authority!
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aha ; LOL
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Wow! I love the analogy!
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thanks Shaily and it’s good to hear from you again š I’ll see if you’ve got any recent posts up
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Haha! You sure let the cat out of the bag, John. A wonderful one! š
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Lol. Yes, a lot happens in that deceptively calm little poem š
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I love this one!!! Well done John.
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thanks, Bob; one thing flowed into another, and it was done š
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Excellent and thoughtful post. I guess we all try to find that balance in our relationships. But now and then we do need a ‘kick up the backside’.
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hahah; we certainly do š
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It’s difficult to be kind, but it’s usually the right decision. That’s how I see it anyway š
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I agree; it makes for a more pleasant atmosphere if you’re not dealing with a morose cat or moody teenager š a little give and take —
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