What Were They Thinking, My parents …… ?
What were they thinking, my parents,
when they took me,
a kid of ten,
to the drive-in back in ’55
to see ‘Rebel Without A Cause’?
Weren’t they aware
of its rating?
the furore it caused when released in the States?
the horrific ‘chicken run’ scene ?
You know the one
where two cars, one driven by Dean, the other by his rival,
race towards a cliff over looking the ocean
and whoever jumps out first is the chicken?
Dean jumps out just in time,
the other driver, his jacket sleeve caught in the door handle,
plummets to a fiery death onto the rocks below
his bulging eyeballs
filling the screen.
It was horrific, thrilling and a great moment in cinema.
But should I have been watching it?
Well it obviously stayed with you John! I think 10 year olds watch far more damaging things these days. Hard to erase!
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I suspect you’re right, Brian. I watched it the other night on the Classic Movie Channel, half a lifetime later, and it had lost none of its potency —
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That, and all the rest of your experiences made you the man you are today. So, I’d say yes, it was appropriate for you to watch. Else you wouldn’t be you.
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that’s a great answer, thanks ; so many things conspire to make us who we are —
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I love your questions. They make me think what I might ask about my own parents’ choices and my choices as a parent. Your description of the scene made me nervous! 😊
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thanks Kelley; it’s not the scene you could easily forget —
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Wow, John! That’s quite a scene for a 10 year old! I wouldn’t forget it, either! I love his you used this memory and photo for poetic ponder! You’re a gifted writer, my friend!😊
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thanks so much, Karla; I saw the film again, for the first time since ’55, last night on the classic movie channel: it had lost none of its potency !
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You’re welcome, John. I’m interested to see it again (it’s been a while). Particularly, I want to see that scene (and pretend I’m ten watching it!)!! I love classic movies!
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yes, so do I. I watched ‘Key Largo’ the other night on the classic movie channel; magic 🙂
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Epic!! I love Katherine Hepburn movies (Bringing up Baby and The African Queen), Gone with the Wind, Casablanca, and any old John Wayne!
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once that nostalgia kicks in …..
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I hope you don’t feel scarred by having seen the movie when you were so young. Perhaps it moved you to become creative at a much earlier age?
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I like your interpretation, Eden; not scarred but thrilled and horrified at the same time 🙂
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A rotten child ever after! What WERE they thinking!?😉😎
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🙂 I was Dean fan like, forever, after that film though I couldn’t get into his Oscar winning ‘East Of Eden’ —
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“What were they thinking ” …
we too ask our parents lol
a grand quote to image to your words, John🤍
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🙂 thanks Destiny; glad you liked this one; it’s gone through a few rewrites but THIS was the one I was happy with 🙂
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I’ve thought that about some of the things that my parents allowed or did, and my daughters and I have looked back at some of my choices when I was raising them. somehow we are all here to share, but some things just stick with us
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they sure do, Beth; yes as parents, our kids might well question us about some things we allowed —
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my motto is, ‘well, we’re all still alive!’
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Hey, Beth: I like that 🙂
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Those images get embedded in the brain and never leave. Your question is a good one!
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thank you; and good to have a new reader 🙂
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As you’ve carried this searing memory for so long, did you ever ask your parents about it?
I remember my parents’ taking my sister and me to see Vincent Price in “The House of Wax” many years ago. In my recollection (which may or may not be true–too late to check), we were all so terrified that we spent the night huddled together.
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yes, I saw ‘The House of Wax’; it is pretty scary ; no, I never did ask them; when I thought to, they were no longer with us —
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I was older when I saw Rebel. But what a great film.
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I saw it again the other day on the classic movie channel, Bob, half a lifetime later: it has lost none of its potency —
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I’m going to have to rewatch it soon.
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it was originally released as a ‘B grade’ movie but then Dean died and that raised its status to a major release: a ‘crowd puller’ , A grade status —
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Wow. Considering it’s a classic now.
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I think every child has confronted their parent with that very question at some point. You have a very vivid description of the very horrid scene!
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thank you Heather 🙂
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I don’t think I ever saw that film, John. That scene would have stuck with me too. Your poem describes it’s intense impact well. And I agree with Brian that what kids watch these days is much worse.
I remember my parents taking me to a drive in and there were belly-dancers in the movie. My brothers and I were giggling in the back seat to the horror of my parents. They asked what was so funny, and we replied that the ladies’ pants were falling off. Lol. Kids.
Great poem.
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thanks Diana: I enjoyed the scene with you and your brothers in the back seat giggling; I could picture it and the puzzlement of your parents. Priceless 🙂
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This isn’t quite the same thing, but my parents took my brother and me to see “Old Yeller” at a drive-on when we were munchkins. I was and still am a dog-lover. I cried for days.
And let’s not discuss what the hunters did to Bambi’s mother.
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no, let’s not; and yes I remember ‘Old Yeller’; a real tear jerker ; ‘Old Shep’ too, the Elvis song: that really ‘broke’ my sister up —
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This makes for an interesting memory. Back then, people weren’t as well-informed about movies before heading into the theaters. Maybe they were horrified too?!
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thanks Becky; I never considered that possibility —
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